... he instead continues to save money from two retirements. Is it wrong for us to have a conversation about helping with expenses?
DEAR ANNIE: My father-in-law has been living with us for the past two years, as he is in the process of buying a new house. The housing market has been tough, and it’s taken longer than expected. What was at first going to be a six-month stay has extended well beyond.
My father-in-law pays no expenses and instead continues to save money from two retirements. Is it wrong for us to have the conversation about helping with expenses now? The cost of everything has gone up, and it feels like a child staying with us. He is helpful with household chores and handyman work, but that doesn’t negate the expenses we are continuing to incur with a third person in our household. I am very frustrated at this point with the entire situation. Any advice would be most helpful.
DEAR FIL AS ROOMMATE: It’s your house. Of course it is within your rights to have a conversation with your father-in-law regarding his stay. I would ask him what his timeline is for finding a new place and explain to him that the cost of housing a third person is continuing to rise. It is perfectly reasonable and expected for him to contribute to the household in some capacity -- whether it’s buying groceries, paying rent or taking on more household work.
Consult with your spouse before having this conversation to make sure you are both on the same page in terms of what you are asking for and how to best communicate with him.
Brasil Últimas Notícias, Brasil Manchetes
Similar News:Você também pode ler notícias semelhantes a esta que coletamos de outras fontes de notícias.
Dear Annie: Young grandmother can’t get away from daughters’ babysitting requestsIn today's Dear Annie column, Annie Lane offers advice to a frustrated grandma in her 40s who is expected to fly in and watch her grandchildren multiple weeks a year and pay for activities while she's there.
Consulte Mais informação »
Dear Annie: Should I ask my father-in-law to contribute to expenses while he’s living with us?In today's Dear Annie column, Annie Lane offers advice to a reader whose in-law was only supposed to live with them temporarily, but months has turned into years.
Consulte Mais informação »
Dear Annie: I gave my nephew money for his honeymoon and they still haven’t cashed the checkIn today's Dear Annie column, Annie Lane offers advice to a reader who is upset their nephew didn't spend cash they were gifted specifically for their honeymoon on the honeymoon.
Consulte Mais informação »
Dear Annie: My daughters keep planning ‘vacations’ for me to come babysit my grandkids — so they can go on vacationsAdvice from Annie Lane.
Consulte Mais informação »
Dear Annie: As much as I love my grandchildren, I would like to go on vacation, too!(My daughters) plan “vacations” for me to come watch their kids while they go on an actual vacation.
Consulte Mais informação »
School district in South Texas temporarily closes due to uptick in COVID-19 casesA school district in South Texas is closing temporarily after seeing a surge of COVID-19 cases among students and staff members.
Consulte Mais informação »