DEAR ABBY: A year and a half ago, I separated from my husband because I was being neglected, not respected, and mistreated emotionally. During the separation, he had to have surgery and needed to be taken care of while he healed. I went back because, as his wife, I felt obligated to do the right thing.
I have tried to move forward and restore my marriage, but I still don’t feel loved or appreciated. In the back of my mind, I can’t forget the way he treated me in the past. I feel stuck because he isn’t working and doesn’t plan on working again. He says he’s not able to, but I believe he could do something that’s not strenuous.
If he has no income, you may have to provide for him financially from now on. For some women, this might mean remaining unhappily married but living their own lives to the extent they can, and not relying on their spouse for emotional or any other support.DEAR ABBY: I have to meet my fiance’s adult children. They are not happy he’s in a relationship since their mom’s death two years ago. I’m very nervous about it, and so is he.
If it becomes necessary, their father should be prepared to make clear to them that you two are going to be married and, while they do not have to “love” you, he expects them to treat you with courtesy, respect and kindness.DEAR ABBY: Is it customary to give a house cleaner or cleaning service lunch or offer them food if they are doing an extensive cleaning job? I ask because my mother-in-law hired a cleaning crew. She watches my infant daughter during the day.
Brasil Últimas Notícias, Brasil Manchetes
Similar News:Você também pode ler notícias semelhantes a esta que coletamos de outras fontes de notícias.
Dear Abby: ‘Other woman’ rebuilds her life after affair fizzlesDEAR ABBY: I'm a 38-year-old woman who used to be nice. Then I had a three-year affair. Knowing I'm one of America's bigger fools -- and for such a long time -- is infuriating, but I finally saw the light. The only person I think is a bigger fool than me is his wife.
Consulte Mais informação »
Dear Abby: This disastrous affair left me bitter and mistrustfulAlso, his teenage son followed me around town yelling obscenities.
Consulte Mais informação »
Dear Abby: Wife gets no support in dealing with milDEAR ABBY: I need some advice regarding my mother-in-law. She has hated me since the first time she met me because I'm not from the country but from 'the city.' I have given her gifts for birthdays and holidays and invited her on day trips with us, but she always refuses.
Consulte Mais informação »
Dear Abby: I pursued this older man when I was a teen. Now I want out.I’m feeling very guilty but I know what I need to do.
Consulte Mais informação »
Dear Abby: Wife gets no support in dealing with milDEAR ABBY: I need some advice regarding my mother-in-law. She has hated me since the first time she met me because I'm not from the country but from 'the city.' I have given her gifts for birthdays and holidays and invited her on day trips with us, but she always refuses.
Consulte Mais informação »