AskABoss: 'At this stage, my decision is final, and there isn’t really any point to agonizing over it any more. So why am I?'
I’m wondering if what I’m feeling about my resignation is normal, and how I can best position myself to still start my new role with confidence despite my fears.
But now that I’m in my notice period, I feel like I’m always ten seconds away from calling my boss and saying, “Never mind! I want to stay!” I know at least some of this comes from nerves over making a big change, and I still suffer from a lot of the self-doubt that characterized my time in my current role. But some of it has to do with what has happened since I gave my notice:
3. My old employer made me a counteroffer for about half the salary increase I’m getting in my new role, along with some other perks. While this was tempting, given the conversations above, I opted not to accept because I couldn’t say for sure I wouldn’t want to leave again in a couple of months, and I’d rather keep this bridge intact than burn it by quitting a second time later on.
It’s so, so normal to second-guess your decision to leave a job. Of all the things people write me, “Should I quit my job?” is the single most common. “I feel too guilty to quit my job” is the second most common. As for the company owner’s regrets at not keeping you … well, if it’s such an “unfathomable loss” for the organization, the time for it to offer you a higher salary and other perks was before it had already lost you. If she was able to offer you that raise once you were leaving, she was able to offer it to you earlier, too; she just chose not to because she didn’t think she needed to. She’s trying to dress that up as flattery and appreciation now, but the timing speaks for itself.
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