Whether it's at work or at home, it's important to know how to talk to people. That's why psychologists Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman recommend adding one simple phrase to your day-to-day conversations. Can you guess what it is?
Renowned psychologists John and Julie Gottman have been happily married for 35 years and have studied more than 40,000 couples.
Across the board, they’ve learned that even though each partnership is unique, couples tend to want to be acknowledged, appreciated and seen by their partners.Shifting to an appreciation mindset looks like noting the positive things your partner has done for you, and thanking them, especially for the minor things. Be very specific about why the small gesture is big to you.
For example, you may want to say: “Thank you for making the coffee every morning. I love waking up to the smell of it and the sounds of you in the kitchen.” “In our most intimate relationships, we can forget how important saying ‘thank you’ really is,” the Gottmans say.This is a snippet from the weekly CNBC Make It Life newsletter, written by Renee Onque. for the CNBC Make It newsletters.
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