.the_rewm is here to save so many of my friendships.
time and energy trying to make it up to the person later than you would if you just went? If your goal is to make a decision confidently and fully own your choice, thinking about it from different angles like this can be super helpful.Perhaps when you were making these plans you told yourself you’d feel more enthusiastic about roller skating or amateur improv or music festivals by the time the big day rolled around...
“Hey, friend, I’m completely exhausted and broke right now, and am honestly feeling very stressed about our plans for tomorrow night. I really want to catch up with you, though—would you be up for coming to my place and letting me cook you dinner instead of us going all the way to New Jersey? And we could still plan to go to Medieval Times next month, once I’ve finished this big project and my bonus paycheck has hit.
If at all possible, reschedule in the same conversation so the friend knows you are still genuinely interested in hanging out with them. If they don’t confirm or they seem kind of disinterested, follow up within a week to try to plan something new.Acknowledge that breaking a date, especially at the last minute, can cost your friend time, money, and energy. That might mean Venmo-ing them for, say, the cost of their ticket, or the cancellation fee they’re now on the hook for.
With this in mind, I’ve started experimenting with less advance planning. While making impromptu plans won’t always work out, there’s something to be said for occasionally reaching out to friends a day or two in advance to do something fairly low-key . As long as you go into it with full awareness that your friend might not be willing or able to make it happen , it can be worth a shot.
Turns out this approach is actually more chill and effective than I thought! There’s something about it that feels really wholesome and good—intimate, exciting, reminiscent of college.
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