One mom-to-be doesn't know what to do after her ex's parents started pressuring her to use the baby names they picked.
with someone you're no longer in a relationship with can definitely be tricky. But one woman on Reddit says she had no idea that her biggest challenge would be dealing with hergrandparents are pressuring her to pick a certain baby nameThe woman is about seven months pregnant, and although her ex doesn't want to be involved in her pregnancy, his parents do -- in a BIG way.
"I am the mother of this baby, so it's my call," she claimed to have told them."I am trying to be flexible, and I was willing to hear suggestions, but I'm not going with a completely different set of names. I'll consider using one of your suggestions as a middle name but at the end of the day I get final say, and I like what I picked out."
"You are not being unreasonable," one person assured her."You are the one who will be calling YOUR child their name the most. The 18 years of visits was on the assumption that they would be reasonable." "They got the chance to name a kid," the person wrote."That kid is choosing not to be a parent and you are being incredibly nice to let them have a role in the kids life when their son won't. Name your son Aiden Matthew. If they complain, oh well. You are mom, you are the only one who gets to decide in this case. On top of that, names are a big deal. Give in now and they will push boundaries as much possible.
"They also say that they will not have a large role in the child's life due to their son's actions," she continued,"and this will make their role seem 'less like an afterthought' .""They seem really upset and when I talked to a friend about it, assuming she'd be on my side, she said 'IDK, the baby will be with you and see your parents all the time, it wouldn't kill you to throw them a bone.
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