DEAR ANNIE: Some years ago, I went to a nearby office supply shop, where I saw a local couple looking around. The woman, a local musician, had Alzheimer’s, but she seemed to recognize me, so we began a conversation. I don’t recall what it was about, but it was the silliest, most illogical and the most fun conversation I’ve ever had with anyone. I just went along with whatever she said, never trying to force reality onto her and augmenting whatever her ideas were when I could. Meanwhile, her husband seemed to be mortified beyond embarrassment. ... I think it is better to greet them “where they are” and find a way to spread some cheer in that.
DEAR ANNIE: Some years ago, I went to a nearby office supply shop, where I saw a local couple looking around. The woman, a local musician, had Alzheimer’s, but she seemed to recognize me, so we began a conversation. I don’t recall what it was about, but it was the silliest, most illogical and the most fun conversation I’ve ever had with anyone. I just went along with whatever she said, never trying to force reality onto her and augmenting whatever her ideas were when I could.
DEAR GOING WITH THE FLOW: As Maya Angelou famously said: “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” Thank you for your insightful story.DEAR ANNIE: Nearly 13 years ago, my husband and I lost our 12-year-old son to a severe asthma attack. Since then, I have encountered numerous instances where I meet new people and am asked how many children we have.
I don’t want anyone to feel bad about asking, because he is part of me every day, whether someone asks or not, but I also don’t want to exclude him because he is, after all, still my son. Can you help me construct an appropriate response that won’t leave either me or the inquirer feeling guilty? -- Seeking Tactful Reply
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