How can I convince my fiancee that this puppy could end our relationship?
If you don’t communicate in plain English, your fiancee will continue to ignore your wishes and walk all over you. Don’t say you weren’t warned.We had an incredibly hard childhood. We lost our mother when she was only 48. My issue with Julie is her constant and blatant storytelling.
She has two young children and is recently divorced. While I feel terrible about her situation and have gladly been there to help her, her lies drive me up the wall. The things she makes up are so bizarre, they make me cringe. She’s obvious about it, and it screams red flags.I know Julie wouldn’t be willing to admit she has a problem, because she becomes extremely defensive when faced with anything she needs to work on. What can I do?There is nothing you can do to help someone with a problem they refuse to admit they have, but there may be something you can do to help her children.
Model honest behavior, admit when you make a mistake, praise them when they emulate you and call them on it when you catch them in a lie. Then hope it will help them learn not to manipulate others. If their father is in the picture, let’s pray he can be a positive influence on them as well.
For instance, without going into specifics, I’ll send a text to the second wife of a close relative , and she always responds, “Love you!”UNCOMFORTABLE OUT WESTAnother way to respond would be to write, “Back at ya!” while resolutely fighting the urge to express that you don’t love her, too. A simple “Thanks!” also would be appropriate.For those who celebrate Easter, I wish you all a very meaningful and memorable day.
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