He has a problem with the other grandparents, but my son doesn’t know it.
Relationships can be complicated. Not all families meld easily. It’s regrettable, but it’s also a fact.
While it would be nice if your husband would be willing to make an effort to control his distaste so he could be included in more get-togethers, he has made it clear that he isn’t. Continue visiting with your son, DIL and in-laws when the opportunity arises. Let your husband “have other plans, be busy,” etc. If your son or DIL asks why your husband is absent so often, tell them to ask him.I am a male reader who was in a physically and emotionally abusive relationship for a number of years. I believed, as I was told repeatedly, that there was no hope of freeing myself and that I was stuck in that situation for the rest of my life.
Please, Abby, tell your readers if they are experiencing abuse and feel stuck, to believe in themselves. Theyhave their lives back. They should reach out and not feel embarrassed. They can make this happen.Congratulations on reclaiming your life. As your letter illustrates, partner abuse can happen regardless of gender. Although the focus is usually on women, abuse also happens to men, straight and gay.An organization I have mentioned in this column before is Stop Abuse For Everyone .
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