SeeingSomeone: 'He often talks about his primary partner, and now I can’t seem to get out of my head about it. Is there a way to get past this, or should I call it quits?' Randa Sakallah of hotsinglesnyc responds
I just got out of a serious long-term relationship, and now I am trying to ease myself back into the dating world. I’ve been seeing a few people, but about two months ago I met this guy on a dating app and we’ve been hanging out every week. On our first date, he revealed to me that he is polyamorous and has three other partners with whom he’s romantically involved.
Most people would say this guy, let’s call him Greg, already fucked up by waiting until the date to tell you he’s poly. “Whenever I’m talking with somebody, even before we go on a date, I tell them that I’m not monogamous,” Ishmam, a polyamorous dater, told me. “If I have a partner, I tell them I’m partnered.”
But now that we’re here, let’s talk about your options. You ask if there’s a way to get past your jealousy with Greg, but before getting into that, I think we should revisit what you want in the first place. You say you’re not looking for “anything serious” because you’re “trying to ease myself back into the dating world.” It makes total sense to want this after a breakup. But seeing a polyamorous guy once a week for two months isn’t exactly dipping your toes into the dating pool.
Speaking of communication, everyone I spoke to said you should be transparent with Greg about your jealousy. You could ask him to stop talking about his partner, but he may not be comfortable with that request. But even if he is, since he’s already explained that he’s looking for something casual, he’s probably not going to be the person to give you the emotional certainty you’re looking for.
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