Dear Amy: My wife’s nephew “Chris” is going through a divorce.
For instance, they will learn that they won’t be able to tell one set of grandparents about experiences with the other set. They will train themselves never to mention their mother in front of their father’s family.Furthermore, if your wife’s family would punish you for simply being kind and cordial to “Jan,” this reflects extremely poorly on all of them.
No, you should not contact Jan to tell her you’re sorry you won’t be able to speak to her. This would only insert you into their drama. If your wife and her family confront you about this, you can simply remind them that you are an adult and that they are not in charge of you.She invited me, her husband “M,” and another friend out to a karaoke bar for dinner and drinks.When the bill arrived, it was more than he was expecting, and he told us he’d send us a Venmo request for our share the next morning.I didn’t hear anything about it again, until this week when I got a Venmo request for $85.
I feel like it’s extremely tacky of him to ask for repayment now. Plus, if I do, I’ll have about 17 cents until my next paycheck.
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